EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS

Here's How:

1)stayed focus:
a) focus on the present, your feelings,understanding one another and finding a solution.
b) make a discussing more taxing and even confusing
c) try not to bring up past hurts or other topics.

2) listen carefully:
a) while it might be difficult, try really listening what your partner saying.
b) don't interrupt and don't get defensives.
c) just hear them and reflect what they are saying.
d) then you will understand them better and they will be more willing to listen to you.

3) try to see their point of view:
a) talk about our point of view to get the other person to see things our way.
b) try to really see the other side, and then you can better explain yours.

4) take a time:
a) take a break from discussion if you feel nervous.
b) sometimes good communication mean knowing when you take a break.

lastly, don't give up:
1) if you both approach the situation with a constructive attitude, mutual respect and a willingness to see the others point of view of at least find a solution. you can make progress toward the goal of a resolution to the conflict.
2) unless it's time to give up on the relationship , don't give up on communication.
3) lastly, don;t give up.